Day: May 12, 2025

Having Children When You’ve Had a Traumatic Childhood

The idea of having kids when you’ve had a traumatic childhood is complicated. The fear of passing on my own crap to someone else, it feels unfair. Selfish, even. Why should I have a child have to carry around the weight of my unresolved pain? And yeah, I’m 31. Biologically, if I want kids, I